Buyer beware: Online dating is full of big fat liars

Go ahead: call me shallow.

That’s fine. I really don’t mind. I’m comfortable enough with who I am to admit that I am, to a degree, shallow. We all are. Most people just don’t admit it. Sure, we like to believe that personality counts for everything, but let’s face the truth here: personality counts most in the long run, but for that initial, immediate attraction, physicality plays an important role.

That’s not shallow. That’s just life.
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What is it like to turn 35?

I turn 35 today.

About a month ago, during a late-night conversation with a close friend, she asked what it’s like to turn 35, if I had any regrets, if I was happy.

I answered then, but it didn’t come out the way it should have.

I guess I should’ve answered like this:
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